Sunday, February 26, 2012

We're Halfway Through!!

Hello again, family and friends.

To say that the past week has been a roller coaster of ups and downs would be an understatement.  After the inspection of the first townhouse last Tuesday, we were both pretty down.  Although most of the necessary work was cosmetic or clean-up, we both felt that it was much more of a fixer-upper than we want to deal with.  Besides, after the repairs were complete, it still needed some appliances and a garage door opener which would have taken some time and effort to have installed.  It was questionable whether or not the carpets could be cleaned/saved.  Owning a townhouse is a huge compromise for us, let alone owning one we didn't much care for.  

Our Second Home??
The evening before the inspection I spotted a brand new listing for a corner unit about a block away that looked very nice, but the listed price was very high for the neighborhood.  On a whim, we called our realtor and asked if we could look at it the next day.  She agreed and scheduled a viewing Wednesday afternoon.  There was no comparison!  It is a bit larger and in much better shape.  It also has a lot more natural light (because it is a corner unit with a SW exposure), all appliances, and a garage door opener.  After seeing it, we knew we would never have been happy with the other one, so we made an offer on the spot.  That same afternoon we drove clear across town to return our rental car to the airport and have dinner with my aunt, who lives on  the east side of Portland.   By the time we got home late that evening, all necessary forms were on the computer and ready to sign electronically using a very slick electronic signature program--DocuSign.  Long story short, with very minor changes our offer was accepted by the next morning.  On Thursday, right after therapy, we met with the realtor.  Rejecting one real estate deal and signing a new contract, literally within minutes, was a very new and different experience, and a bit overwhelming.  The inspection on this one is scheduled for Tuesday afternoon.  Since we are dealing with the owner (not a bank-owned foreclosure), closing should move much more quickly.   Ironically, if the bank that owned the first one hadn't dragged its feet, we might have closed before this one was available.  It is nice to know that Someone is looking out for us. 

 Little Rowan is still growing like a weed.  His "due date" is Tuesday, so it will be interesting to see how much he weighs, etc., and what his doc says at the appointment that day.  They all came over for dinner Friday evening.   Rowan was great, just like the last time they were here, and we had a very relaxed evening.  Kathy went over to visit this afternoon and to see Doug and Kathy Reimer and Jendy Riemer Newman, who also stopped in to meet Rowan and say hello. 

On the health front, reaching the halfway point in the treatments on Friday was a milestone.  As we mentioned in our last post, I have been juggling a lot of medications.  Somewhere in the mix, my immune-system-compromised body consumed something it doesn't like.  As a result, hives have erupted on my arms, and from my neck to my knees.  They itch like crazy and there is nothing I dare take for them until we find out what caused the reaction.  I even stopped taking two medications which gave me a lot of relief from the direct side effects of both hormone therapy and radiation, so I'm also dealing with those issues again.  Oatmeal baths and hydrocortisone cream help, and I have a homeopathic pill for allergies made from ground honeybees that seems to help.  What's next?  Eye of newt?  I've never had a reaction like this and, all of a sudden, have gained a huge amount of empathy for those who go through life dealing with allergies.  We'll just take one day at a time, knowing we are in the home stretch.  

Laughter is a great medicine, so we'll be looking for funny movies, videos, stories, to add to the therapy.   
Here's one for you:
A man walks into a doctor’s office.  He has a cucumber up his nose, a carrot in his left ear and a banana in his right ear. 
“What’s the matter with me?” he asks the doctor.
The doctor replies, “You’re not eating properly.” ~~Thanks, Brian! :)

We appreciate all your prayers and support very much as we continue on our journey, especially at this time.    

Have a great week!!  Wherever you are, may March come in like a lamb (and go out the same way!)

Shalom,
   Barry and Kathy

9 comments:

  1. I know you will make the condo "home" even though it isn't exactly what you thought you'd like. We'll just have to help you fill it with Alaskan photography and art!

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    1. Cindi, they will have some to choose from...my "addiction" is Alaskan art work so we have a lot that hasn't made it onto our walls yet. Probably enough to nicely decorate a new town house! :)

      Erika Bracken-Probst

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  2. Congratulations on the better southwest facing townhome in the picture! Sounds like a much better place with more livability for you and guests. So glad you switched places and thought through some of the additional features. Does it have airconditioning?

    Sorry to hear about the hives and reactions to medications/food/general maliase with the radiation treatment. Your medical-nutritional team sounds like they have options for you and oatmeal is one of them.

    Love the vegetable joke. We have a few we'll pass on soon. Right now we are at a tech conference/class for both Rob and I in Anchorage where it is nice and cold with light snowfall. Tuesday we'll head back to Petersburg and the sea vistas.
    Fondly,
    Susan (&Rob)

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  3. If and when the house deal goes through in its finality, we'll have lots of time to slowly make it "home". I subscribe to the "less is more" theory, and want to keep it cozy, simple, and relaxing. Among the first purchases will definitely be the poang (?) chairs from Ikea--Susan & Cindi, like yours. We love them!
    The description says central air, but the inspection will prove that out.
    Oatmeal is for soothing on the outside, and I will make oak cakes with the leftovers :).
    Enjoy yourselves, wherever you are!
    KB

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  4. I think the townhome looks really cheerful, with the red paint!

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  5. Congratulations...I hope the inspection yields no surprises. I admire your positive attitude while you deal with the side effects. I know that being sick myself taught me a lot about empathy, too.

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  6. I wish I could "like" your comments, as on Facebook :)
    CJS, the **light** makes it feel cheerful, and I like the red, too!
    I can't imagine not being positive, I (Kathy) love watching Barry come out of the RAD treatment room, he always has a smile on his face and greets the people he meets on the way out.
    AB, we have learned so much from you--such strength and resilience! You don't have to look too far to see someone who is struggling more than we are.
    And, even though it's chilly, the sun is shining :)

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  7. Well, it sounds like the journey has some detours. Hives and allergic reactions, when you have them, seem a lot worse than a "detour". Hope the home remedies do the trick but as you know with multiple things ingested it makes finding the offending agent much more difficult. If you need to sleep, Atarax a first generation antihistamine works well (we used it a lot with people with the after effects of scabies) and it works well.

    I must have gotten confused via a facebook posting, which I answered and then noticed the baby was a girl, so without much thought or investigation I jumped on that and assumed that Rowan became a girl and went back and reposted to Kathy to apologize for calling your new grandchild a boy (which he is indeed) when "he" was actually a girl. If your grandchild does not have gender issues by now, I do.
    Speaking of "babies" we are "lossing" our 3 baby Corgi's this week. They all found homes and will go to them. This is the last litter and then Phaddie McPhaddie (it was Fatty McFatty, as she was the largest puppy and chow hound of her litter) will be spayed, as that decreases her possibility of cancer of the reproductive system. The puppies are cute but a lot of work, picking up after them,cleaning bedding, feeding, etc.. The lambing season starts in about 1 week, have a ewe trying to prolapse her uterus, not so good for her or her lambs, so we are dealing with that. Everything is kept inside via a plastic paddle that is tied to her wool, if that isn't successful then we'll have to suture her vagina closed and watch closely when delivery time approaches; but since I am now retired I have "all this free time" which means I can check on the ewe several times a day and night for the next two weeks (not what I want to do). Well we shall see.
    Well I had better close and feed some animals, myself and then head south to pick up a couple 1/4's of beef that were processed for my wife's natural beef customers. And I have to drop off a couple bikes to prepare for riding this spring. By the time you finish reading this your treatments should about be done! Enjoy the new place and keep smiling. We'll be in touch. Jim

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    1. Jim, Thanks for the chuckles. It is always great to hear from you.

      Good luck with the lambs. When I was in school at Oregon State about 100 or so years ago, we had a friend a few miles down the valley who went through lambing season every spring while holding down a full-time job. I helped just a little and could see what a chore and constant worry it was for him. He has since given up on sheep and runs a world-class winery. Hint, hint.

      Barry

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